不管怎么去信任一個人，都不要全拋一顆心，與人的關(guān)系，有時候比紙還易破，好的時候，心堅如鐵，翻臉的時候，鐵上全是銹，要有多難看，就有多難看。

No matter how you trust a person, don’t give up all your heart. Sometimes your relationship with people is easier to break than paper. When it’s good, your heart is as strong as iron. When you turn your face, the iron is full of rust. It’s as ugly as it should be.

人心太深，防人之心要有；人心再苦，也要自己慢慢消化。

If the people’s heart is too deep, they should have the heart to prevent others; No matter how bitter people are, they should digest it slowly.都說吃的苦，才是人中人，吃苦不好受，但是能把苦吃完，生活就會不同。

It is said that suffering is one of the people. It is hard to bear hardships, but life will be different if we can finish them.

那些寂寞的憂傷都是生活常態(tài)，沒有必要寂寞就找人，憂傷就訴苦。

Those lonely sorrows are the norm of life. There is no need to find someone lonely and complain about sadness.這個世上猜不透的是人心，無法信任的是感情。用了兩年的時光學說話，用了一輩子的時間學閉嘴。

In this world, what cannot be guessed is people’s heart, and what cannot be trusted is feelings. It took two years to learn to talk and a lifetime to learn to shut up.

所以，與其苦苦的哭訴，不如收起那點軟弱，拿出堅強的心全部承載起來；與其喋喋不休的埋怨，想獲得他人的同情，理解，還不如修煉自己的內(nèi)心，把承載的苦，慢慢去消化。

So, instead of crying bitterly, it’s better to put away that weakness and take out a strong heart to carry it all; It’s better to cultivate your own heart and slowly digest the pain you bear than to complain endlessly and get sympathy and understanding from others.